Recognising And Renegotiating The Mental Load

by I’m a week back from holidays in Fiji. Eight days with a long-time girlfriend spent in beach clubs, floating pontoons, swimming in crystal clear water, sail boats, champagne, great food and heaps of laughter. I have been stopped in the street and supermarket […]

Cat The Cupid

by How do I tell a good friend that I feel she is too opinionated at the expense of not listening to others? It sounds like you love your friend and feel that she isn’t aware of the negative impact she has […]

Cat The Cupid

by I’ve given birth to my first child in the last 6 months and I’m finding it hard reignite the intimacy in my relationship with my husband… Firstly, congratulations on bub! Welcome to the club of unconditional love and lack of sleep. Lack […]

Cat The Cupid

by I’ve just moved in with my boyfriend at his mothers house and I am finding her to be overbearing. Do you have any tips on how to manage the relationship so I can maintain my own personal space? I would suggest […]

Cat The Cupid

by Why do some boys end all communication with girls they are dating at the drop of a hat for no apparent reason?  Honestly, many boys are rubbish at communicating, particularly when they need to send a negative message. Sometimes it can […]

Life After Children

by This post comes after a pretty hectic past couple of weeks and at a time where I feel there has been a lot of heaviness floating around in the air. I don’t know if it’s because of the ‘Super Moon’ that graced […]